I had a brief dialogue with Richard Cocks at Orthosphere recently, and something about it rubbed me the wrong way. He was making a point that the opposite of Freedom is Slavery, and so Freedom is and ought to be the great mystery of life. In disagreeing, I argued that Freedom has two alternatives: Obedience and Slavery. Richard had this to say in reply:
As for obedience, I’m in favor of obedience for dogs and small children who can’t be trusted to be morally autonomous because they can understand only “this displeases me” but not why. But I don’t want my 23 year old son to obey me. I want him to join me in loving communion and shared ideals. Bearing in mind that he is a morally sound, well-meaning individual who, when he makes mistakes, he makes them involuntarily and accidentally. I am not here to judge him, but to be a parent who is there for him if and when he needs me, but mainly to loosely join our lives together in comradery and fellowship. He is free to communicate if and when he chooses with no consequences from me. Certainly no threats.
Richard Cocks, Orthosphere
This is an excellent critique, and forces me to explain why exactly Obedience ought to be preferred to freedom. I attempt to go into that here.
Freedom
When people refer to freedom, they generally are thinking of a few different things. 1) Autonomy, or the unrestrained nature of being. Any inhibition necessarily reduces autonomy, and is therefore opposed. 2) Liberation, the changing of one state to another. When I did Exodus 90, they described the process as “Freedom”. We weren’t any more free than when we started, but we changed states from ignorance of our own sin to a state of awareness and repugnance of our own sin. We were liberated from the shackles of sin. Some might consider themselves liberated from school at the end of a school day, or liberated from their parents when they move away from home. This kind of freedom implies by the change in state that there are new choices available to them which, by some external force, were previously unavailable. 3) Independence, or the absence of dependence on anyone else. This is differentiated from Autonomy, in that autonomy is freedom of action, while Independence is freedom from responsibility. The Independent rely on no one, and have no one relying on them. They are “free” to act without consideration of anyone’s interest.
The Freedom which Richard wishes for his son is the first sort of Freedom. He doesn’t wish to impose upon his son a sense of morality (which would surely make his son desire the second sort of Freedom), but rather would like his son to have the Freedom to choose a path, and he would like his son to freely choose the path that he himself chose. He wants to avoid using carrots or stick to incentivize certain behaviors, for fear of reducing his Freedom in the third sense.
Unfreedom
Richard said that the opposite of Freedom is Slavery, and I suggested that another corollary would be Obedience. Let’s re-examine these ideas given the clarifications above.
If we take the concepts introduced in 1, 2, and 3 above and simply invert them, we have a pretty clear depiction of Slavery. 1) Restrained nature of being. 2) Changing from a more-free to less-free state. 3) Dependence, totally reliant on others. But lets not rush to the other side of the scale: One can be restrained without being enslaved. One can burden themselves for some different benefit than immediate self interest. One can be partially dependent and have some advantages.
Lets consider livestock, specifically horses. Wild horses are romanticized as roaming free on the plains of the American west. They need to forage for food for themselves. Fight for mates for themselves. They live in the elements of the outdoors, their wounds can quickly become fatal. But consider farm horses. They don’t have to look for food at all. They are selectively bred. They are protected from the elements. Their wounds are cared for. In exchange, the horses must be put to some work. Some pull carts or farm equipment, others race: regardless, they must work.
To my mind, this is what Christ refers to when he says the yoke is easy and the burden is light. He restrains us, but doesn’t hurt us. We must do work, but it is not hard. This is a picture of Obedience.
Practical Obedience
I am not too far removed in age from Richard’s son, so I will use myself as an example instead. If I lived at home, my parents would be right to expect obedience from me in certain things. They would be unhappy, for example, if in the spirit of comradery and fellowship I failed to raise a hand to aid in the upkeep of the home. I would surely think I was being unduly restrained, enslaved from my formerly free state, if they imposed their will upon me. If my parents failed to instruct me that it was their expectation that I care for some aspect of the home while I lived there, they would be unreasonable to be irritated by not meeting expectations that were not communicated.
Even as a son living away from home, my parents expect certain behaviors, even if those behaviors have changed somewhat. If I failed to acknowledge my mothers birthday, for example, I would be in hot water with my father, and rightly so. Obedience, in the family, ensures that all are aligned to the good of the family.
Likewise, with Christendom: Obedience ensures that all are aligned to the good of God, the King of Creation. Obedience can not be ensured without both carrots and sticks. The burden is light, but still a burden. The reward is sharing in the beatific vision. An infinite reward at a modest price.
AMDG
