This is a hard thing to describe so bear with me.
Fiction–cinema, written, television, performative, any fiction–gives us the impression that people can be all good minus this one attribute; or all bad minus this one attribute. There’s a presumption of innocence which is surprisingly charitable. True human nature, however, has connections between mind, body, and spirit which prevent one from being able to move without the others. Recognizing that a mans actions cannot be independent of his thoughts which cannot be independent of his spirit is this Skeleton Key.
Bishop Fulton Sheen was keenly gifted in detecting this. Bishop Sheen has a story where he was on a flight to a theological conference and the priest sitting next to him on the flight confessed–“Sometimes I have a hard time accepting the real presence of the Eucharist.” Bishop Sheen replied: “What color his her hair? The woman you are seeing.”
Bishop Sheen knew that our thoughts, words, and deeds are all interconnected. This was not an otherwise good priest having philosophical doubts–he was behaving badly and so believing badly.
So how is this a Skeleton Key?
Assimilating Truth is a very challenging thing to do. It takes humility to simultaneously acknowledge that you do not have all the answers and that you are willing to accept the answers as they are presented to you. That’s why you can’t just walk around saying “Jesus is God” and have people convert on the spot. Most people aren’t seeking, most people aren’t listening.
That is a separate problem, the nature of most people. But supposing the apologist has encountered someone who is a seeker, who is curious and wants to learn not just what are the things that you do but why do you do them, then you have an opportunity to preach the Gospel. The seeker will either reject it or accept it. If they reject it, they will either do so obstinately–“that’s dumb no way dude”–or inquisitively–“that doesn’t make sense to me”.
But in both cases of rejecting, there is usually some attachment to error that is blocking the path. Perhaps they have been taught that predestination is true since they were children and they are too attached to the belief to let go of it. Perhaps they are a serial fornicator curious about religion but not enough to stop fornicating. Perhaps they don’t like the thought that they owe a duty of worship to God and the thought makes them uncomfortable. It could be anything–but the point is, the apologist must recognize that it is not the doctrine in isolation which the seeker has a problem with; the seeker has a disconnect with the doctrine in some aspect of how they live, think, and/or pray.
This is also why it is very important to make sure the apologist is governing their lives with discipline according to the law of God. If the seeker believes the apologist isn’t practicing what they are preaching, neither of you will grow closer to Christ.
AMDG
